Saturday, October 17, 2009

Tienanmen Square - Forbidden City - Hu Tong Village


Sunday, October 11, 2009


After another great breakfast...you see, breakfast is the only meal so far that Randy is 100% comfortable with. I do have to give him credit though, for as picky an eater as he is, he has tried a few new things and actually liked them! I, on the other hand, have absolutely loved every meal! The fruit and vegetables here are delicious!

So, after breakfast we all got in the tour van and headed out to Tienanmen Square. It was the 60th anniversary of the PRC. Huge crowds of people everywhere. Cindy showed us plates in the sidewalk that were opened up and used as toilets at the height of the celebration. She said they put a curtain around them, but basically you are squatting over a hole in the sidewalk. Pretty gross.


At the center of Tienanmen Square were about a dozen floats from different provinces throughout China. They were very opulent, as was everything given the nature of the celebration. Everything was decorated with flowers, which were quite beautiful even on the final day of the celebration.

After passing through Tienanmen Square, we went underneath one of the main roads in a tunnel that led to the gates of the Forbidden City. A very large red building with 3 huge arches served as the gate. I can see why it would be extremely intimidating to anyone approaching in ancient times. At the gate we were approached by several "vendors" selling post cards or maps of the Forbidden City. There were also a couple of beggars, one missing a hand and another missing a foot. These were the first beggar's we had seen since arriving on Friday evening. The Forbidden City consisted of a series of courtyards and walls into more inner, and exclusive, areas for receiving foreign dignitaries and eventually the Emperor's own dwelling where only the Emperor, concubines and unics were allowed to enter. Leaving the city, there was a beggar on a cart with terribly deformed legs. Randy gave him a 100 Yuan note and was immediately approached by a woman with a baby on her back. She didn't seem to have any outward problems like the other gentleman, so he kept telling her no. She was very persistent but eventually gave up. Very sad.

Following the visit to the Forbidden City, we went to yet another "traditional" Chinese restaurant. This one was very good, given the nature of the food. All the staff were in traditional dress. The room was decorated with traditional Chinese lamps and other red and gold (formal) decor including hand-painted tiles on the wall. Still had the "traditional" Chinese toilets - not good. Basically, a porcelain hole in the floor with a stall around it. So far, I've avoided them. Randy has too as it is impossible to read a newspaper and keep from falling over.

After lunch, it was off for a tour, via rickshaw, of a typical Hu Tong Village in the old section of Beijing. Some of the dwellings were as much as 400 years old. A sort of Ghent in Beijing. Most of the homes had no toilets and owners had to use public toilets installed by the city at various locations. We were invited into one woman's home. It was pretty small, with a little courtyard in the center with a couple of trees and what looked like 2 finches, each in their own cage. It was quaint, but dirty. There was a woman doing laundry on a washboard in the corner of the courtyard. She was very quick to smile and didn't seem the least bit worse for the wear. I have noticed there seem to be people who look like they haven't lived as hard - straight teeth, fairer skin that doesn't look as weathered, dressed more western, etc. Then there are those who would be considered peasants in the old times who are still functionally peasants now. They look like they have lived a harder life, do more menial jobs and seem less educated. The woman who allowed us into her house said, through the interpreter, that she had been laid off work a while back and had taken to allowing tours of her home to help earn money. She had some homemade liquor that was beyond disgusting. It consisted of a semi-clear liquid with snakes and other dead animals in it. Apparently, they add to the potency somehow. I'll never know.

After leaving the home we rode by rickshaw through a series of small alleyways called Hu Tong that run between the older homes. It was all very dusty and dirty due to a major push to upgrade all the old homes to electric heat instead of coal. They were digging up the dirt streets everywhere to bury the new cables. Cindy explained that all construction had been halted during last-years Olympic Games and now they were playing catch-up to complete the work.

Following the rickshaw ride it was off the the Beijing Airport. Clean, western toilets were a breath of fresh air if you can imagine that. There was a heavy fog (or smog) engulfing the airport. So much so that I asked Cindy if she thought the flights would be delayed. She laughed and said they fly when it's much worse. Our plane departed on time - China Air - and the flight was mostly uneventful. The colors inside the plane were, you guessed it, red and yellow, just like most everything. It was pretty full and we seemed to be the only Westerners there.

Nanchang is the capital of Jiangxi Province. It has 1.11 million citizens and an area of 70 square kilometers. One of the ancient cultural cities in China, Nanchang was built as early as 201 B.C, and became a famous metropolis in the Tang and Song (618-1279) dynasties. Its geographical location made Nanchang strategically important. It was the birthplace of the Chinese People's Liberation Army.

There are many tourist attractions in Nanchang, such as the Memorial Hall of the August 1st Nanchang Uprising, the People's Square, the August 1st Park, and Tengwang Tower. We should get to see most of these while we are here.


Nanchang means 'a prosperous south part of China'. Being over 2,200 years old, Nanchang is a city with significant historical relevance. As the capital city, it is undoubtedly the political, economic and cultural center of Jiangxi Province.

Nanchang belongs to the sub-tropical monsoon climate; therefore it will bring you mild and pleasant weather for almost all the year round. The annual average temperature of Nanchang is 64F. The spring is warm an rainy; the summer is hot. the autumn is dry; and the winter is snowy.

As described by the locals, "Nanchang is a beautiful city with the Gan River, the mother river of local people, traversing through the whole city. Water is her soul or in other words water carries all her beauty. Lakes and rivers in or around Nanchang bring a special kind of charm to the city. Nanchang is honored as 'a green pearl in the southern part of China' thanks to its clear water, fresh air and great inner city."

We arrived in Nanchang in a little less than an hour and were met at the airport by our next guide, Echo. She made a comment that she loved her American name and the fact that we (Americans) can pick any name we want. We went straight to the hotel because one of the girls arrived a day early. She was from a different orphanage than Lea that was only an hour away from the hotel. She is almost 3 years old and it was quite difficult for her. She cried for her "Aye" (pronounced Ah-yee) which is what the girls call the caretakers. She had been with a foster family since she was an infant and was very attached to them. Her new mom did very well, although I can't say I could have been that stoic. She has an older daughter from China so she was prepared for what to expect, but I imagine it was very hard for both of them.


After putting our stuff in our room, Randy and I went out to stock up on water and sodas for the room and then decided to call it a night......tomorrow is the BIG DAY!!


The Great Wall of China - Ming Tombs


Saturday, October 10, 2009

We had a great breakfast at the hotel this morning. The coffee was great...but then again, I'm used to the strong, French-style coffee. Afterward, we all met in the lobby and headed out to the Great Wall. On the way to the Great Wall we decided to make a stop at China's Largest Jade Gallery. It was very interesting and impressive to say the least to watch them making the jade pieces. I have to agree, it was the largest Jade Gallery that I have ever seen. Of course, we bought a few souvenirs. After that, it was on to the Wall.

It was incredibly beautiful! We walked all the way to the 4th tower which took about an hour to do. Some of the steps were so steep, I literally had to crawl up to the next step. I have short legs, but still, I don't know how some people who are much shorter than I am can do it. At one point, it felt like we were going straight up. I took lots of photos but I don't think they will do it justice. It's one of those things you just have to experience to fully comprehend the greatness! Once we got to the top, Randy bought us the obligatory "I climbed the Great Wall" t-shirts that they sell at the top.


On the way down from the top of the mountain it was a much faster trip although more difficult to keep hold of the rail as it was about knee-high. It had the effect of making you lean backwards in a partial limbo just to get a grip. Beijing moves from a plain to sharp mountains in the course of about a mile. The mountains were where the Great Wall began, so you can imagine the difficulty of climbing it. Of course, this was easy compared to hauling all the granite up those same mountains when they built it with no real technology. Truly a marvel of construction.

After the Great Wall we had all worked up quite the appetites and headed off to lunch at traditional Chinese restaurant. Our guide, Cindy, ordered for us. She said this restaurant was famous for its "home-style" cooking. Everyone sat at a large round table, family-style, with a glass top lazy Susan so the food could be spun around to whomever needed it. We had shrimp, chicken, pork and beef in larger quantities, and of course, tofu for me. We had stir-fried green beans and stir-fried julienne potatoes that were great. Randy said the peanut chicken was beyond spicy. In all, the food was really good, but definitely different.

After lunch we visited the tombs of the Ming Emperors. Instead of walking more stairs down into the tombs we decided to walk the Sacred Road with hand-carved stone statues protecting the emperors in the next life. One huge carved elephant, who was in a resting pose, had his front legs bent the wrong way, but they went with it anyhow - 700-year-old civil service.



We then returned back to the hotel completely exhausted. Randy had to lay down in the back seat of the bus. There were those - okay, everybody - who told him that he was snoring pretty loud. He said, "I find that hard to believe. The whole thing wreaks of conspiracy." We should have gotten it on film!

After we got to the room Randy decided to check out the massage thing...here's his story. Definitely one to remember:

"I heard about these great Chinese therapeutic massages and my back was sore from climbing up a mountain on the Great Wall. Bare in mind, this is in a Marriott Courtyard in Beijing - a very nice hotel. I go to the fourth floor gym, up to the service desk and ask for a massage in English. The young woman at the service desk calls over this guy who can barely speak English and is dressed in a medical-looking smock. Well, for the next 45 minutes he proceeds to loosen my back up through a series of pressure points and chiropractic moves. It's fantastic! I'm thinking, this is the bomb. They do all this with your clothes on, which I already knew was the custom as explained by our interpreter earlier in the day. Everything is going fine. I'm at peace with the world. Life is truly good. After lying down, he has me sitting on a little stool to crack a certain spot in my back that he correctly identified as a pain point (keep in mind he spoke very little English, so he found all the problems I had with little if any input from me - really knew his stuff) when he called out to someone. This is where things get weird. An attractive young woman appears at the door. She is *not* dressed in a medical smock. She looks more like she's heading out clubbing. The gentleman manages to get out that she's going to finish the massage. So, naively, I'm thinking maybe she was on break and he was just helping her out while she was gone. I had about 15 minutes of the massage left, so this made sense to me. The first indication of problems arose when the gentleman said he was done and she pulled out a new price list. I'm still not catching on. I think to myself, why would a need another massage? She asked for my room number, so I figured she was going to have the previous massage charged to my room. It started to become clear when the gentleman left the room and she asked me - with a broad smile to "get undressed now?" Crap! She's a hooker. Or at least a specialist in happy endings. I tried to explain that I was done, at which point she offered to meet me in my room. After insisting several times that I was good to go, she looked (falsely) sad and walked out. Then the original masseur entered the room and asked one more time if I wanted her to "take care" of me. I said one final no. I pulled out the yuan to pay the man and he said I only should tip him, but have to give the fee to his "boss." This is on the fourth floor of the Marriott Courtyard mind you. Outside of the room was a gym with a service desk and what looked like a few tables and couches for people to relax after a workout. At one of these tables in a darker corner was the "Boss." We'll just call him "Moose." Sitting across from Moose is the young lady who I had previously met and another who looked to be about the same "rank." I cough up the yuan for the massage and Moose points to the women one last time, they smile, and I do my best to say no thanks (boo-yao shi-shi) in Mandarin. He looks a little put out but sits back down at the table and starts back typing on his laptop. Now I'm in a really weird space - from peaceful to confused to scared to, "What just happened?" I got back to the room and Renee asked what was wrong - apparently my eyes were still a little bugged-out from the sudden increase in metabolism. I told the whole story to her and said if a hooker knocks on the door in the next hour or so, I'm not here. She said, jokingly, we should never speak of this again. I agreed. My silence lasted until breakfast the next day."Well, off to sleep........tomorrow is another big day!

P.S. The massage therapist never showed up at the room :)


We made it!


Friday, October 9, 2009


Well, we finally made it to China. After a very long day of flying, we are now comfortably in our hotel room. We left home this morning at 4:45am and flew out of Norfolk at 6:53am. With a short layover in Chicago, it was on to Toronto, Canada. We had a much longer layover in Toronto and then the flight was delayed because of a medical issue with one of the passengers from the flight before ours. We finally boarded and took off for Beijing. After 12.5 hours of flying, we finally landed in Beijing at 4:45pm (Beijing time). Which means from start to finish, it took a full 24 hours to get here!

We were met at the airport by Cindy (that's her "American" name) who will be our guide while we are in Beijing. We were driven to our hotel and checked in. There are a total of five families in our travel group. We actually flew from Toronto to Beijing sitting in the seats right behind Linda and her sister who are here adopting Linda's second daughter from China. Karen and her mother arrived yesterday, but we haven't seen them yet. Karen is also here for her second adoption. Lori & Eric arrived on an earlier flight today and were already checked in when we arrived. Hank & Gail won't arrive until Sunday.



After about 10 minutes or so of getting our stuff in our rooms, we all met back downstairs in the lobby and walked around to a local grocery store to stock up on water and snacks for our rooms. This was the most interesting, by far, of any grocery store I've ever been had the pleasure of touring. Apparently, in China, they prefer their food to be fresh. I'm not talking about freshly frozen, or fresh packed...I mean "still alive" fresh! Most all of the seafood was still swimming and if it wasn't it was laid over a bed of ice, completely in tact. Chickens still had their heads and even a feather or two. Crabs were crawling around everywhere, frogs hopping around this plastic bin they were kept in, and some things I couldn't even identify. The cut meats were not wrapped like we do, they were also laid over a bed of ice. Being vegetarian, I opted out on anything in that section. We did get some water and chips for the room. Randy decided that he needed a peanut butter sandwich since the airplane food left much to be desired.

He actually told me when we landed that after we get back home, he was never going to set foot on an airplane again! Although, I think that promise is much similar to the ones we make to ourselves when we wake up with a killer hangover and say, "I'm never drinking again!!" At the time, there was no doubt in my mind that he meant it. But we survived and we are looking forward to an all day tour of Beijing and the Great Wall tomorrow.


Saturday, October 3, 2009

In less than a week..........


I'll be on the way to my baby girl!! We leave this Thursday for Beijing, then on to Nanchang on Sunday, and then Monday is FOREVER FAMILY DAY!! We'll meet Lea in the morning and spend the week there. We'll fly out Sunday for Guangzhou for almost a week then land back home the following Saturday, just in time for the last coach-pitch baseball game of the season!

We got updated information and a new photo this week......
She's 18 pounds and 27 inches now at 11 months old.



Friday, August 21, 2009

Finally...

It's a GIRL!

We finally got the long awaited phone call today... Jonathan is a BIG brother!!

Here's what we know about Lea Mae so far:
Chinese name: Cen, Si Xin
Born: 10/31/08
Province: Jiangxi
Weight: 14.5 lbs (at 8 months)

Length: 25 inches (at 8 months)
SWI: She is with a Foster Family in Heng Feng
And here she is............